5 Conversations You Must Have With Your Daughter: Resources

 

Below are some resources to compliment the First Baptist Cleveland study group for 5 Conversations You Must Have With Your Daughter by Vicki Courtney. This list has been compiled by the facilitator based on information provided by women in the study. First Baptist Cleveland does not necessarily agree with all information offered by each resource. As with all things, prayerfully consider whether a particular resource is beneficial for you and your family's situation.

After I looked things over, I stood up and said to the nobles, the officials and the rest of the people, "Don't be afraid of them. Remember the Lord, who is great and awesome, and fight for your brothers, your sons and your daughters, your wives and your homes." -- Nehemiah 4:14

  

Websites 

www.5conversations.blogspot.com 

vickicourtney.com (includes her previous blog site virturealert.com)
www.girlsforhisglory.com (FBC Girl's Ministry blog)
www.focusonthefamily.com (Click on Parenting to see a lot of resource articles.) 
ecmagazine.blogspot.com Essential Connection Magazine (for youth) This their blog, the also have a magazine subscription available.
blogs.lifeway.com/blog/girlsministry Lifeway’s Girls Ministry Division Blog. Posts lots of great topics
www.girlsgonewise.com Mary Kassian's Girls Ministry site with blog
setapartgirl.com Blog and other resources from Leslie Ludy
www.reviveourhearts.com (Nancy Leigh DeMoss' ministry website)
www.purefreedom.org (Dannah Gresh's ministry)
www.generationsofvirtue.org (specifically the books they recommend and Technology Tools under Parents of World Changers)
www.kids-in-mind.com (Movie reviews)
www.christa-taylor.com (modesty - clothing line)
www.starvingsoul.org (eating disorders)
www.covenanteyes.com (purity for the internet)
www.beggarsdaughter.com (purity in sexual areas)
www.commonsensemedia.org (media reviews)
www.momsintouch.org (praying for your children)

 

Books/Resources for Girls:

Between (magazine for girls 9-12) by Vicki Courtney
TeenVirtue (magazine for teenage girls) by Vicki Courtney
A Young Woman after God's Own Heart by Elizabeth George
Lies Young Women Believe: And the Truth that Sets Them Free by Nancy Leigh DeMoss
And the Bride Wore White: Seven Secrets to Sexual Purity by Dannah Gresh
Passport2Purity by Dennis and Barbara Rainey
Secret Keeper: The Delicate Power of Modesty by Dannah Gresh
Secret Keeper Girl: 8 Great Dates for you and Your Daughter by Dannah Gresh
My Best Friend Jesus: Meditating on God's Truth about True Friendship by Dannah Gresh
And the Bride Wore White: Seven Secrets to Sexual Purity by Dannah Gresh
The Story of Me (God's Design for Sex, Book 1) by Stan and Brenna Jones
Before I Was Born (God's Design for Sex, Book 2) by Carolyn Nystrom
What's the BIG DEAL?: Why God Cares About Sex (God's Design for Sex, Book 3) by Stan and Brenna Jones
Facing the Facts: The Truth About Sex and You (God's Design for Sex, Book 4) by Brenna Jones
Queen Esther's Secrets of Womanhood: A Biblical Rite of Passage for Your Daughter by Ginger Garrett (with Mom)
The Young Lady in Waiting: developing the heart of a princess by Jackie Kendall and Debbie Jones
God's Wisdom for Little Girls: Virtues and Fun from Proverbs 31 by Elizabeth George
Every Young Woman's Battle by Shannon Ethridge
For Young Women Only: What You Need to Know About How Guys Think by Shaunti Feldhahn
Every Young Woman's Battle: Guarding Your Mind, Heart, and Body in a Sex-Saturated World (The Every Man Series) by Shannon Ethridge and Stephen Arterburn
P0rn Nation Student Edition: The Nak3d Truth by Michael Leahy
A smart girl's guide to the internet by Sharon Cindrich (an American Girl book)
The Care & Keeping of You: The Body Book for Girls (American Girl Library) by Valorie Schaefer and Norm Bendell
Dateable: Are You? Are They? by Justin Lookadoo and Hayley DiMarco
Do Hard Things: A Teenage Rebellion Against Low Expectations by Alex Harris, Brett Harris, and Chuck Norris
What to Expect When Mommy's Having a Baby (What to Expect Kids) by Heidi Murkoff and Laura Rader
God Gave Us Two by Lisa Tawn Bergren and Laura J. Bryant

 

Books/Resources for Moms/Parents:

How and When To Tell Your Kids About Sex: A Lifelong Approach to Shaping Your Child's Sexual Character (God's Design for Sex)
Lies Women Believe : And the Truth that Sets Them Free by Nancy Leigh DeMoss
Interviewing Your Daughter's Date: 8 Steps to No Regrets by Dennis Rainey
For Women Only: What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men by Shaunti Feldhahn
For Parents Only: Getting inside the head of your kid by by Shaunti Feldhahn and Lisa Rice
 (also for young women only and men editions)
Your Girl: Raising a Godly Daughter in an Ungodly World by Vicki Courtney
Every Woman's Battle: Discovering God's Plan for Sexual and Emotional Fulfillment (The Every Man Series) by Shannon Ethridge and Stephen Arterburn
Preparing Your Daughter for Every Woman's Battle: Creative Conversations About Sexual and Emotional Integrity (The Every Man Series) by Shannon Ethridge
Kissed the Girls and Made Them Cry: Why women lose when they give in by Lisa Bevere
Passion and Purity: Bring your love life under Jesus Christ's control by Elisbeth Elliot
Parenting Today's Adolescent: Helping Your Child Avoid the Traps of the Preteen and Teen Years by Dennis Rainey
Beautiful Girlhood: A Timeless Guide for Christian Adolescense by Mabel Hale
Logged On and Tuned Out by Vicki Courtney
Internet-Protect Your Kids: Keep your children safe from the dark side of technology by Stephen Arterburn and Roger Marsh
Home Invasion: Protecting your family in a culture that's gone stark raving mad by Rebecca Hagelin
Hooked: New science on how casual sex is affecting our children by Joe McIhaney
P0rn Nation: Conquering America's #1 Addiction by Michael Leahy
P0rn University: What College students are really saying about sex on campus by Michael Leahy
Boys Should Be Boys: 7 Secrets to Raising Healthy Sons by Margaret J. Meeker
That's My Son: How Moms Can Influence Boys to Become Men of Character by Rick Johnson
Who Moved the Goalpost?: Seven Winning Strategies In The Sexual Integrity Game Plan (Just for Men!) by Bob Gresh and Dannah Gresh (similar to "And the bride wore white" but for boys)
www.familylife.com (A Weekend to Remember conferences and other resources)
Love as a Way of Life: Seven Keys to Transforming Every Aspect of Your Life by Gary Chapman

Marriage

Rocking The Roles: Building a Win-Win Marriage by Robert Lewis

What about the fathers and/or boys?

Interviewing Your Daughter's Date by Dennis Rainey

Raising a Modern-Day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood by Robert Lewis
Your Boy: Raising a Godly Son in an Ungodly World by Vicki Courtney
For Young Men Only: A guy's guide to the alien gender by Jeff Feldhahn and Eric Rice
For Men Only: A Straightforward guide to the inner lives of women by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
The Dangerous Book for Boys by Hal Iggulden and Conn Iggulden
Preparing Your Son for Every Man's Battle: Honest Conversations About Sexual Integrity (The Every Man Series) by Stephen Arterburn
Every Man's Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time (The Every Man Series) by Stephen Arterburn
Every Young Man's Battle: Strategies for Victory in the Real World of Sexual Temptation (The Every Man Series) by Stephen Arterburn, Fred Stoeker, and Mike Yorkey
P0rn Nation Student Edition: The Nak3d Truth by Michael Leahy
Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters: 10 Secrets Every Father Should Know by Margaret J. Meeker
Better Dads, Stronger Sons: How Fathers Can Guide Boys to Become Men of Character by Rick Johnson
Do Hard Things: A Teenage Rebellion Against Low Expectations by Alex Harris, Brett Harris, and Chuck Norris
 

Technology Resources

www.missingkids.com/adcouncil/pdf/lingo/onlinelingo.pdf

www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/protecting_your_family.aspx 

XXXchurch.com 

www.safekids.com/child-safe-search/ ("safe" search engine for kids)
www.safekids.com (internet safety)
www.wiredsafety.org (internet safety)
www.safefamilies.org (internet safety)